Tantra Heaven with Mare

Can a Man Become Multi-Orgasmic?

2009-11-08T16:25:00.000-08:00

Can a Man Become Multi-Orgasmic?

I know you're probably wondering not only is it possible but if it's exhausting to have all those orgasms. After all, coaches often recommend that the team abstain from having sex before an important game and it's a good idea because it helps conserve their energy.

It is possible that a man can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating. That's the only way that I would recommend you attempt to be multi-orgasmic, otherwise it IS depleting.

Repeated ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms are NOT the same.
So guys you don't get to ejaculate multiple times. Their is a tantric, smarter way that doesn't deplete your body's vital energies. To the contrary, it fills you with chi.

Instead of being drained, you can learn to tap into the creative life forces contained in each ejaculation. Revere it as the sacred seed of life that it truly is and the energy will flow in abundance.

The interesting fact is that when a man learns to experience orgasm without ejaculation, he is not only conserving energy but he is becoming energized.

The hormones and pheromones that are released during enlightened sexual loving lingers long in our bodies and fill both partners with the purifying prana - essence of love.

Orgasms can be energizing and being sexually fulfilled can raise one's self-confidence in all areas of life. How can we become multi-orgasmic? It begins with expanding the range of sensual awareness so your entire being feels beautiful and wonderful tapped in turned on and finely tuned.

So how is it possible? Well first of all it's not about holding back the orgasm as most men might think and probably “try” to do.

It's actually a process of internalizing the energies of pleasure causing the orgasm to flow in and up, rather than out. It then becomes a continuous stream of pleasurable energy which in many ways feels much like a great orgasm or better without the ejaculatory release, or loss of energy!

In fact, this inner streaming is actually energizing and in some cultures such as Tantra, or Taoism, it is practiced as a way of cultivating one's life force. Sexual energy is a creative life force. If you learn to master this energy, you will become more creative! Isn't that a nice bonus?
So you may think mail multiple orgasms can be exhausting and indeed that can be so. But it's also possible that through tantra internalizing of the orgasmic energy multiple orgasms can radiate healing energy throughout!

But those who are unenlightened here may find it exhausting to have multiple orgasms. After all, coaches recommend that the team abstain from having sex before a big game. And it's a good idea because it helps conserve their energy.

It is possible that a man can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating. That's the only way that I would recommend you attempt to be multi-orgasmic, otherwise it IS depleting.

Repeated ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms are NOT the same thing.

So guys you don't get to ejaculate multiple times. smarter way that doesn't deplete your body's vital energies.

Instead you can learn to tap into the creative life forces contained in each ejaculation.
Revere it as the sacred seed of life that it truly is and the energy will flow in abundance.
The interesting fact is that when a man learns to experience orgasm without ejaculation, he is not only conserving energy but he is becoming energized!

The hormones and pheromones that are released during enlightened sexual loving lingers long in our bodies and fill both partners with the purifying prana - essence of love.

Orgasms can be energizing and being sexually fulfilled can raise one's self-confidence in all areas of life. How can we become multi-orgasmic? It begins with expanding the range of sensual awareness so your entire being feels beautiful and wonderful tapped in turned on and finely tuned.

So how is it possible? Well first of all it's not about holding back the orgasm as most men might think and probably “try” to do.

It's actually a process of internalizing the energies of pleasure causing the orgasm to flow in and up, rather than out. It then becomes a continuous stream of pleasurable energy which in many ways feels much like a great orgasm or better without the ejaculatory release, or loss of energy!

In fact, this inner streaming is actually energizing and in some cultures such as Tantra, or Taoism, it is practiced as a way of cultivating one's life force. Sexual energy is a creative life force. If you learn to master this energy, you will become more creative! Isn't that a nice bonus?

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Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.

2009-09-17T14:21:00.000-07:00

Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.

This title is my preference, as opposed to a title that was published in London in popular tabloid on Tuesday 9/15 called The Sun.

They entitled it:

"Meet the sexual healer who has slept with 1500 men".

I was horrified of course when I saw this title to an article with a lot of misconstrued information that came secondhand to them from a rewrite of an article that was written and published a few months earlier in Bella Magazine UK.

This article also had a rather salacious title asking the question: Would you allow your husband to sleep with this woman, to save your marriage?

A lot of it is sensationalized exploitation and so I felt compelled to debunk it and tell my story. you can visit my blog to read more about as the news unfolds. I'm grateful that I was right away interviewed for AOL health section of their website.

Other health sites have picked up on the story as well to present a more positive picture of sexual healing.

I'd like to present more of the healing aspects of sex... but you know journalism. Sensationalism gets attention.

I've had tons of request for interviews form all over the world from that article. I'm hoping others take a more intelligent view, rather than the salacious tactics that The Sun utilized.

Sexual healing is very important and often overlooked because of the shame we carry around our sexuality.

The article failed to mention that to become a sex surrogate required hundreds of hours of training and internship to be certified, which I was through Dr. Michael Perry, in Van Nuys California. We produced a video together called Sexual Secrets, a Surrogates Guide to Great Sex!

Nor did The Sun mention the 15 years of training and certification in the highest levels of Tantra sexual healing as a ACTE, Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, from the Source School of Tantra; as led by Charles Muir the Granddad of Tantra in the US.

Tantra has empowered my life immensely therefore, I am proud to be a sexual healer and honored too.

All in all the article is not bad, thanks Dulce... but I would prefer a title like:

Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.

"As I don't "sleep" with my students, I'd rather be viewed as one who awaken them".

Four Pillars for Great Sex

2009-08-29T14:00:00.000-07:00

It's a well-known fact and often a source of great frustration among lovers that men and women have different sexual cycles. Men are hardwired to reach a climax quickly in order to procreate... women on the other hand have a capacity for expanded states of prolonged sexual pleasure and therefore their sexual nature is slow to ignite and can burn significantly longer. This usually leaves a sense of dissatisfaction in bed for both partners.

Fret no longer because tantra has a perfect solution to bring together these oppositions in order to create perfect harmony, in and out of bed. Here are some Tantric tips that can bring you more in alignment with one another that will help resolve the battle before it begins.

1. Create a sacred space for loving: turn off the TV, phones and other distractions. Put on some slow, sensual music and soft lighting a few candles can create a sensual ambience designed to relax and put you in an open frame of mind. Draw a nice warm bath or shower together to wash away the stresses of the day. Creating an environment for loving can make a world of difference for both parties. And be sure to designate enough time to connect, setting the intention for making love a celebration and it surely will.

2. Breathe deeply. Looking into one another's eyes synchronize your breath while you caress... awareness of your breath in unison with your partner harmonizes your heart rate so you can begin to feel what your partner is feeling. Make love as a communion of souls becoming one. When your breath is in harmony with your partners, your awareness will become an open gateway to share the most intimate connection. The more you breathe, the more you'll feel!

3. Express your feelings of pleasure: moaning and sweet sighs while you embrace can open a direct channel of communication that can profoundly affect the mood. Keeping your feelings to yourself while remaining silent during lovemaking inhibits the passion between you. Don't worry about waking up the neighbors or your children; the sound of love is music to the soul.

4. Move slowly -- feel every nuance of deliciousness between you, especially during intercourse. As pleasure increases, rather than following the instinct of charging to the finish, deliberately feel more and find a rhythm that satisfies both partners. For men who have a tendency to come sooner than they would like to, allow your woman to take the lead and put your attention on what she's experiencing. You will both be more satisfied and it can definitely help a man to delay his urge to release.

Becoming skilled in these ways can provide a whole new realm of connection between you which can allow a man to become multi-orgasmic by following his woman's lead. As you feel her pleasure quicken, remain slow and deliberate until she urges you on. And remember to breathe deeply in order to expand every sensation explode into pure bliss!

We all have a tendency to hold our breath at the edge of orgasm. Breathing deeply and sighs of pleasure at this time can allow the sensations to spread throughout the entire body, filling you both with rejuvenating life-forces. The afterglow will linger for days!

Mare Simone CTE

Come Together to Celebrate Orgasm Day!

2009-07-19T08:13:00.000-07:00

National Orgasm Day 31 July 2009 -

Let's join us UK friends and proclaim July 31 as Inter-National Orgasm Day throughout the world. Come together for world peace and pleasure!

The 2008-9 Orgasm Survey is ongoing at http://www.orgasmsurvey.co.uk. See how you and others score. This is important research.

2008 Orgasm Survey | The world's largest survey of the female orgasm

Source: www.orgasmsurvey.co.uk

The female orgasm is a subject of intense interest but the reality is shrouded in mystery. For many the G-spot is a myth and for most the vaginal orgasm is an unattainable dream. New research links the ability to achieve orgasm with the state of the pelvic floor.

I proclaim that we adapt this tradition and create International Orgasm Day. Let's take a stand and be counted. Take the survey!!!

National Orgasm Day 31 July 2008 - The 2008 Orgasm Survey

Source: www.scientificblogging.com

A national survey into the bedroom behavior of British women has revealed that 46% percent never or rarely achieve orgasm. The survey, conducted by Scarlet magazine and the makers of the PelvicToner ...

The Healing Power of Pleasure

2009-07-18T16:31:00.000-07:00

We all know how wonderful and tingling in the law if you feel in the afterglow of a great oh! But having that ‘happy release’ isn’t just good for confidence. Research shows that regular orgasms do the body a world of good.

A study in the British Medical Journal concluded that lots of sex leading to climax led to a 50% reduction in the risk of heart attacks.

That's impressive and research worth furthering. Ohhh sign me up as a research subject!

Can you imagine, living in a world where the doctor would prescribe an orgasm a day!! Now that's my kind of medicine. Kaiser Hospital is already using a pelvic massager called the Crystal Wand. they are designed by my friend Cynthia Lamborne who's intention in these massagers is to help awaken a woman to the power of her pleasure!

Anyone may comment here on the powers of pleasure...

Toned pelvis, improves orgasms... Tantric Pelvic Workout

2009-07-05T14:05:00.000-07:00

Want a Better Orgasm? | Strength in your pelvic muscles!

Pumped pleasure muscles increase the volume of tissue that can become engorged during sexual arousal. The link below adds a lot of detail and data to this fact.

I would add that when I seek pleasure at the edge of pain, it expands my pleasure thresholds. There's a fine line between between strength and weakness and how much you're willing to grow. I found the high that endurance can bring when I push myself to the next level is ecstatic and increases my libido throughout my body. So, get pumping, if you want better orgasms!

Short story first:

Once when I was running I got that runners' high and felt that nothing could stop me... that I could fly... I was beyond pain in the realm of ecstatic body awareness and power pumping through my muscles in a way that turned me on beyond words!! It was like my whole body got a jolt of orgasmic, rejuvenating life forces.

It felt like my body was engorged with the power of life and every muscle pumped -- I felt magnificent. It was energizing and highly erotic at the same time. I ran up a hill in Griffith Park... filled with prana enriched air, charged with life from the trees. I was so empowered in that moment I felt completely tuned in and turned on. it was as if my entire body was experiencing energizing orgasms, that lasted for a long, sweet time.

So push yourself UP, to the next level and enjoy the process of pumping your PCs into powerful pleasure! muscle exercises that I recommend I can squeeze and relax and then push out and then again squeeze while breathing in and relax and then push out fully open the entire vaginal region and engorge it in blood and oxygen. This alone will increase the intensity of the orgasm and also will kickstart orgasms. Ripening erotic fruits.

Discover the sexual benefits of the PelvicToner
http://www.iwabo.co.uk/

2009-05-06T12:20:00.000-07:00

Sexuality has a spectrum. One part of it goes from Getting Off, to Expanding Pleasure, and Full Body Bliss!

In my interview with Mare, who is one of the leading goddesses of sacred sexuality, I was moved by her tender & wise information on the genitals and their power to heal. Life & love become an opportunity for full body bliss.

GIVE A LISTEN! (or even read the transcript) LINKS BELOW!

EARLY EJACULATION & THE FULL BODY ERECTION with Mare Simone

EARLY EJACULATION & THE FULL BODY ERECTION with Mare Simone, CTE has been pioneering the arts of sacred sexual healing since the mid-80s. She has a deep passion to heal, educate and enlighten our culture in the realms of high, conscious sex, love and intimacy. She is certified and trained in both Eastern and Western sexology schools and draws from both contemporary knowledge, as well as timeless, classical wisdom.

In this episode, Mare reveals the intuitive emotional truth of Early Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction. Learn what to do when genital numbness happens. Discover the phallus as a deeply intuitive barometer of emotional truth. Get clear what is the normal responsiveness for the penis. Discover how to pump energy through the body. Practice the vulnerable courage to kiss the tenderest parts of self. Explore the opportunity for greater intimacy and full body erection.

May your love life be a blessing to the world,
Francesca

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M. FRANCESCA GENTILLE, SSC 510-759-3839
The Director of The LifeDance Center for Integrative Arts & Sacred Living
Sacred Sex Coach, Shamanic Intimacy & Bodywork Practioner, Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Counselor, NVC Communication Trainer, Cross Cultural Minister www.LifeDanceCenter.com

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2009-02-26T18:02:00.000-08:00

Women are discovering that they can transform labor pain into orgasmic bliss and actually feel pleasure while giving birth!

Dr. Christine Northrup, author and OB/GYN, stated in the documentary, Orgasmic Birth that, “all of the pathways that are involved in sexual pleasure are in fact stimulated when birthing a baby. And when we can allow ourselves to open to childbirth in the same way that we open to the experience of orgasm, a similar orgasmic experience can occur”. And more, magnified by the magnitude!

Tantra views the power of sex and creation to be one and the same. It offers orgasmic breath meditations which help clear tension, and release blocks, to allow more room for pleasure.

"Pushing was absolutely incredible. It felt SO good. I loved the sensation of my daughter's head popping out; and her body coming out was incredible. I made roaring sounds. KT later asked me if I was in a lot of pain and I said I felt no pain at all. I was reaching down into the depths of my being - I felt like I was reaching back through time eternal, into the Great Mother herself - and using my power to push her out. The sounds were sounds of power. And I felt awesomely empowered. It was I could say the best feeling I have ever had. Primal force of life coursing through me. Power of Woman, Power of Birth, Power of Carolyn! If I can do that, I can do anything I set my mind to. The sensation of my daughter's body sliding out of my vagina was orgasmic. I still shudder when I think of how pleasurable that was."
-Caroline S.

"A woman in California was giving birth at home in a portable birth tub and feeling very sexy and loving with her partner. Each time she had a contraction she would cry out, 'Oh, baby, I love it. More...more!' Her windows were open because it was July, and soon a crowd gathered outside her home. When the baby was born amidst shouts of 'Yes!!! Yes!!! Oh, my God, yes!!!' her neighbors gave her a great round of applause. They only realized that it was a birth after they heard the cries of a baby."
-From Gentle Birth Choices, by Barbara Harper, R.N.

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To read more articles about the sensuality of birth click here.

If YOU want consider home birthing that is designed for having an ecstatic, orgasmic birth, I suggest you watch this video: Orgasmic Birth. Plan this event carefully with all the elements that would make it the most sensuous and relaxing environment for you. Remember soft music, lighting, warm towels, oils etc.... breathe deeply, become aroused and enjoy the ride!

Tantra Palooza was fun!!!

2008-08-13T11:10:00.000-07:00

The Tantra Teachers on Saturday 8/09/08 at Tantra Palooza in San Diego -- we were in bliss!! I love our tantra family!!!!!!!!

That's me in my favorite color, purple. I am still in San Diego and in the afterglow of a fun weekend in celebration of 8/08/08 with an event conceived by Kamala Devi called Tantra Palooza which hosted 8 tantra teachers and over 30 attendees.

This is the amazing tent that was constructed in the garden in PB for this gathering and probably many more to come before the season turns cold... It was great to re-connect with my SD tantra freinds which feel like family to me, more than any other tantra community I have been with, with the exception of perhaps the LA community when it was in it's hayday back in the 80's when I founded/ran Tantra Connections there!

I led a brief 2 hour class in Chakra Contact Massage; which was fun and well received by all who participated.

Here is a picture of a body mandala I constucted as a part of the play-party that took place after dinner... this will give you a glimpse of the event and the yummy connection we shared with our chakra-centers all aligned with one another!

Our energy flowed like a river and we were all toning ommmm to syncronize the wave. Several of us were vibrating this wave in full body energy orgasms... yum! I love to play this way.

2008-07-29T16:09:00.000-07:00

Namaste!

I am sooo happy to announce that I am home at long last and back to writing! It's been 2-1/2 months away from by roots and it has truly been a long and amazing tour... from Sedona to Chicago and many points in-between. I have had some of the most challenging and the most amazing sessions!

I feel so fortunate to work so deeply with people, especially with repeat clients, which allows me to see how each has evolved.

Highlights this season: Michael Mirdad returns to San Diego this week for a Tues evening talk on Intimacy and Relationships - Click to read more...

On 8/8/08 eight teachers will offer initiations in various forms of tantra at a really great weekend workshop called Tantra Palooza Event. It begins on Fri and continues thru Sunday.

I will be leading a tantra massage to activate your centers of energy and power called Chakra Contact. Follow this link to read a description of the class and view a few video shorts to give you a better idea of what this style of tantric massage as a dance can offer to you!

Here's a taste of it with Alan, who was a great mandala man, though never got the full impact of it's power as an erotic awakening, healing art.

I look forward to sharing conscious love and laughter with you along the way!

For my complete Tour Itinerary please visit my website.

Sweet Embraces XO Mare OX

Adventures in Tantra Heaven - Sedona

2008-05-08T23:46:00.000-07:00

I left San Diego on Sat and drove up to my goddess friend Amrita's beautiful home in the San Gabriel Mountains, south of LA. We spent a lovely evening together and the next morning had an amazing session with one of her clients. She has invited me to come and take residence in her home when I return from my tour. That is sooo great, we have a wonderful time together and are teaming with love!

Now I am in Sedona at the sprawling oasis Tantra Temple where an annual Conference takes place for a weekend plus... with several days before and after also filled with additional courses. There are so many yummy tantric practioners here from all over the world... about 200 I'm told. I will be speaking and leading a workshop on Sunday and am really jazzed about it. We will be video-tapping it so if you would like to see it I will make it available to post on my site. It will also be live online and you can find out more about it by going to http://www.sedonatemple.com/

On the day after we gathered together in the morning to channel our energies as a collective at one of the less popular power vortexes. There were 30 of us who hiked out to a very remote spot and practiced some rituals to call in the forces to guide and enpower us with our visions. Many of us were very moved by this expedition in ways that will never be the same. Here is what one of the participants wrote afterwards:

There are no words to describe what happened for me other than calling it a once in 100 lifetimes healing. Since then, in the last 72 hours, I have dramatically altered my relationship with my beloved to be much more completely authentic, I have put out love and a very new kind of energy to many people with positive effects! And I have decided to resign from a full time client role that I hated but met my financial obligations... merely on faith that I would find a new client that would allow me to work at something that I authentically like to do.

Then there was a voice mail from one of my favorite people to work with asking for my help waiting for me when my flight from Phoenix landed at Newark. I just learned today that it looks like I may start there in two weeks.

It has been blessing upon blessing upon me during the last 72 hours. There is no way that I can truly express my gratitude sufficiently to you most of all, but I will try.

Thank you very much Goddess Mare.

Tantra works! MS

After the conference I took a road trip to the Grand Canyon with my dear sister Lakshmi. A yoga teacher from Chicago, whom I recently met through dear friends and former lovers. In this case my theory about loving my lovers' lovers is true. We connected like sisters from the first moment we met up and shared a whole lot during the conference. Especially at the highly charged after party on the last night... and ever since... including all the way up to and back from the Grand Canyon.

Our Shakti energy is really dynamic together -- we can just connect and fly in full body waves! It's so cool to find a women friend that I can share so deeply with.

We got the last room available in a modest motel inside the South rim. It was so spectacular! The squirrels are very friendly there... here is a photo of us with our new local friend. He was literally eating out of our hands. I wanted to take him home!

Hello world

2008-03-20T00:38:00.001-07:00

Here we go