Sunday, November 8, 2009

Can a Man Become Multi-Orgasmic?




Can a Man Become Multi-Orgasmic?

I know you're probably wondering not only is it possible but if it's exhausting to have all those orgasms. After all, coaches often recommend that the team abstain from having sex before an important game and it's a good idea because it helps conserve their energy.

It is possible that a man can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating. That's the only way that I would recommend you attempt to be multi-orgasmic, otherwise it IS depleting.

Repeated ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms are NOT the same.
So guys you don't get to ejaculate multiple times. Their is a tantric, smarter way that doesn't deplete your body's vital energies. To the contrary, it fills you with chi.

Instead of being drained, you can learn to tap into the creative life forces contained in each ejaculation. Revere it as the sacred seed of life that it truly is and the energy will flow in abundance.

The interesting fact is that when a man learns to experience orgasm without ejaculation, he is not only conserving energy but he is becoming energized.

The hormones and pheromones that are released during enlightened sexual loving lingers long in our bodies and fill both partners with the purifying prana - essence of love.

Orgasms can be energizing and being sexually fulfilled can raise one's self-confidence in all areas of life. How can we become multi-orgasmic? It begins with expanding the range of sensual awareness so your entire being feels beautiful and wonderful tapped in turned on and finely tuned.

So how is it possible? Well first of all it's not about holding back the orgasm as most men might think and probably “try” to do.

It's actually a process of internalizing the energies of pleasure causing the orgasm to flow in and up, rather than out. It then becomes a continuous stream of pleasurable energy which in many ways feels much like a great orgasm or better without the ejaculatory release, or loss of energy!

In fact, this inner streaming is actually energizing and in some cultures such as Tantra, or Taoism, it is practiced as a way of cultivating one's life force. Sexual energy is a creative life force. If you learn to master this energy, you will become more creative! Isn't that a nice bonus?
So you may think mail multiple orgasms can be exhausting and indeed that can be so. But it's also possible that through tantra internalizing of the orgasmic energy multiple orgasms can radiate healing energy throughout!

But those who are unenlightened here may find it exhausting to have multiple orgasms. After all, coaches recommend that the team abstain from having sex before a big game. And it's a good idea because it helps conserve their energy.

It is possible that a man can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating. That's the only way that I would recommend you attempt to be multi-orgasmic, otherwise it IS depleting.

Repeated ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms are NOT the same thing.

So guys you don't get to ejaculate multiple times. smarter way that doesn't deplete your body's vital energies.

Instead you can learn to tap into the creative life forces contained in each ejaculation.
Revere it as the sacred seed of life that it truly is and the energy will flow in abundance.
The interesting fact is that when a man learns to experience orgasm without ejaculation, he is not only conserving energy but he is becoming energized!

The hormones and pheromones that are released during enlightened sexual loving lingers long in our bodies and fill both partners with the purifying prana - essence of love.

Orgasms can be energizing and being sexually fulfilled can raise one's self-confidence in all areas of life. How can we become multi-orgasmic? It begins with expanding the range of sensual awareness so your entire being feels beautiful and wonderful tapped in turned on and finely tuned.

So how is it possible? Well first of all it's not about holding back the orgasm as most men might think and probably “try” to do.

It's actually a process of internalizing the energies of pleasure causing the orgasm to flow in and up, rather than out. It then becomes a continuous stream of pleasurable energy which in many ways feels much like a great orgasm or better without the ejaculatory release, or loss of energy!

In fact, this inner streaming is actually energizing and in some cultures such as Tantra, or Taoism, it is practiced as a way of cultivating one's life force. Sexual energy is a creative life force. If you learn to master this energy, you will become more creative! Isn't that a nice bonus?

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Thursday, September 17, 2009

Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.


Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.

This title is my preference, as opposed to a title that was published in London in popular tabloid on Tuesday 9/15 called The Sun.

They entitled it:

"Meet the sexual healer who has slept with 1500 men".

I was horrified of course when I saw this title to an article with a lot of misconstrued information that came secondhand to them from a rewrite of an article that was written and published a few months earlier in Bella Magazine UK.

This article also had a rather salacious title asking the question: Would you allow your husband to sleep with this woman, to save your marriage?

A lot of it is sensationalized exploitation and so I felt compelled to debunk it and tell my story. you can visit my blog to read more about as the news unfolds. I'm grateful that I was right away interviewed for AOL health section of their website.

Other health sites have picked up on the story as well to present a more positive picture of sexual healing.

I'd like to present more of the healing aspects of sex... but you know journalism. Sensationalism gets attention.

I've had tons of request for interviews form all over the world from that article. I'm hoping others take a more intelligent view, rather than the salacious tactics that The Sun utilized.

Sexual healing is very important and often overlooked because of the shame we carry around our sexuality.


The article failed to mention that to become a sex surrogate required hundreds of hours of training and internship to be certified, which I was through Dr. Michael Perry, in Van Nuys California. We produced a video together called Sexual Secrets, a Surrogates Guide to Great Sex!


Nor did The Sun mention the 15 years of training and certification in the highest levels of Tantra sexual healing as a ACTE, Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, from the Source School of Tantra; as led by Charles Muir the Granddad of Tantra in the US.


Tantra has empowered my life immensely therefore, I am proud to be a sexual healer and honored too.



All in all the article is not bad, thanks Dulce... but I would prefer a title like:


Meet the sexual healer who has "AWAKENED" thousands of men women and couples.


"As I don't "sleep" with my students, I'd rather be viewed as one who awaken them".





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Saturday, August 29, 2009

Four Pillars for Great Sex


It's a well-known fact and often a source of great frustration among lovers that men and women have different sexual cycles. Men are hardwired to reach a climax quickly in order to procreate... women on the other hand have a capacity for expanded states of prolonged sexual pleasure and therefore their sexual nature is slow to ignite and can burn significantly longer. This usually leaves a sense of dissatisfaction in bed for both partners.

Fret no longer because tantra has a perfect solution to bring together these oppositions in order to create perfect harmony, in and out of bed. Here are some Tantric tips that can bring you more in alignment with one another that will help resolve the battle before it begins.

1. Create a sacred space for loving: turn off the TV, phones and other distractions. Put on some slow, sensual music and soft lighting a few candles can create a sensual ambience designed to relax and put you in an open frame of mind. Draw a nice warm bath or shower together to wash away the stresses of the day. Creating an environment for loving can make a world of difference for both parties. And be sure to designate enough time to connect, setting the intention for making love a celebration and it surely will.

2. Breathe deeply. Looking into one another's eyes synchronize your breath while you caress... awareness of your breath in unison with your partner harmonizes your heart rate so you can begin to feel what your partner is feeling. Make love as a communion of souls becoming one. When your breath is in harmony with your partners, your awareness will become an open gateway to share the most intimate connection. The more you breathe, the more you'll feel!

3. Express your feelings of pleasure: moaning and sweet sighs while you embrace can open a direct channel of communication that can profoundly affect the mood. Keeping your feelings to yourself while remaining silent during lovemaking inhibits the passion between you. Don't worry about waking up the neighbors or your children; the sound of love is music to the soul.

4. Move slowly -- feel every nuance of deliciousness between you, especially during intercourse. As pleasure increases, rather than following the instinct of charging to the finish, deliberately feel more and find a rhythm that satisfies both partners. For men who have a tendency to come sooner than they would like to, allow your woman to take the lead and put your attention on what she's experiencing. You will both be more satisfied and it can definitely help a man to delay his urge to release.

Becoming skilled in these ways can provide a whole new realm of connection between you which can allow a man to become multi-orgasmic by following his woman's lead. As you feel her pleasure quicken, remain slow and deliberate until she urges you on. And remember to breathe deeply in order to expand every sensation explode into pure bliss!

We all have a tendency to hold our breath at the edge of orgasm. Breathing deeply and sighs of pleasure at this time can allow the sensations to spread throughout the entire body, filling you both with rejuvenating life-forces. The afterglow will linger for days!

Mare Simone CTE



Sunday, July 19, 2009

Come Together to Celebrate Orgasm Day!

National Orgasm Day 31 July 2009 -

Let's join us UK friends and proclaim July 31 as Inter-National Orgasm Day throughout the world. Come together for world peace and pleasure!

The 2008-9 Orgasm Survey is ongoing at http://www.orgasmsurvey.co.uk. See how you and others score. This is important research.

Source: www.orgasmsurvey.co.uk
The female orgasm is a subject of intense interest but the reality is shrouded in mystery. For many the G-spot is a myth and for most the vaginal orgasm is an unattainable dream. New research links the ability to achieve orgasm with the state of the pelvic floor.

I proclaim that we adapt this tradition and create International Orgasm Day. Let's take a stand and be counted. Take the survey!!!

Source: www.scientificblogging.com
A national survey into the bedroom behavior of British women has revealed that 46% percent never or rarely achieve orgasm. The survey, conducted by Scarlet magazine and the makers of the PelvicToner ...


Saturday, July 18, 2009

The Healing Power of Pleasure

We all know how wonderful and tingling in the law if you feel in the afterglow of a great oh! But having that ‘happy release’ isn’t just good for confidence. Research shows that regular orgasms do the body a world of good.

A study in the British Medical Journal concluded that lots of sex leading to climax led to a 50% reduction in the risk of heart attacks.

That's impressive and research worth
furthering. Ohhh sign me up as a research subject!

Can you imagine, living in a world where the doctor would prescribe an orgasm a day!! Now that's my kind of medicine. Kaiser Hospital is already using a pelvic massager called the Crystal Wand. they are designed by my friend Cynthia Lamborne who's intention in these massagers is to help awaken a woman to the power of her pleasure!


Anyone may comment here on the powers of pleasure...

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Toned pelvis, improves orgasms... Tantric Pelvic Workout

Want a Better Orgasm? | Strength in your pelvic muscles!


Pumped pleasure muscles increase the volume of tissue that can become engorged during sexual arousal. The link below adds a lot of detail and data to this fact.

I would add that when I seek pleasure at the edge of pain, it expands my pleasure thresholds. There's a fine line between between strength and weakness and how much you're willing to grow. I found the high that endurance can bring when I push myself to the next level is ecstatic and increases my libido throughout my body. So, get pumping, if you want better orgasms!

Short story first:

Once when I was running I got that runners' high and felt that nothing could stop me... that I could fly... I was beyond pain in the realm of ecstatic body awareness and power pumping through my muscles in a way that turned me on beyond words!! It was like my whole body got a jolt of orgasmic, rejuvenating life forces.

It felt like my body was engorged with the power of life and every muscle pumped -- I felt magnificent. It was energizing and highly erotic at the same time. I ran up a hill in Griffith Park... filled with prana enriched air, charged with life from the trees. I was so empowered in that moment I felt completely tuned in and turned on. it was as if my entire body was experiencing energizing orgasms, that lasted for a long, sweet time.


So push yourself UP, to the next level and enjoy the process of pumping your PCs into powerful pleasure! muscle exercises that I recommend I can squeeze and relax and then push out and then again squeeze while breathing in and relax and then push out fully open the entire vaginal region and engorge it in blood and oxygen. This alone will increase the intensity of the orgasm and also will kickstart orgasms. Ripening erotic fruits.


Discover the sexual benefits of the PelvicToner
http://www.iwabo.co.uk/

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Sexuality has a spectrum. One part of it goes from Getting Off, to Expanding Pleasure, and Full Body Bliss!

In my interview with Mare, who is one of the leading goddesses of sacred sexuality, I was moved by her tender & wise information on the genitals and their power to heal. Life & love become an opportunity for full body bliss.

GIVE A LISTEN! (or even read the transcript) LINKS BELOW!

EARLY EJACULATION & THE FULL BODY ERECTION with Mare Simone

Mare Asha Simone, CTE


EARLY EJACULATION & THE FULL BODY ERECTION with Mare Simone, CTE has been pioneering the arts of sacred sexual healing since the mid-80s. She has a deep passion to heal, educate and enlighten our culture in the realms of high, conscious sex, love and intimacy. She is certified and trained in both Eastern and Western sexology schools and draws from both contemporary knowledge, as well as timeless, classical wisdom.

In this episode, Mare reveals the intuitive emotional truth of Early Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction. Learn what to do when genital numbness happens. Discover the phallus as a deeply intuitive barometer of emotional truth. Get clear what is the normal responsiveness for the penis. Discover how to pump energy through the body. Practice the vulnerable courage to kiss the tenderest parts of self. Explore the opportunity for greater intimacy and full body erection.


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May your love life be a blessing to the world,
Francesca

Francesca Gentille, Director, The LifeDance Center

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M. FRANCESCA GENTILLE, SSC 510-759-3839
The Director of The LifeDance Center for Integrative Arts & Sacred Living
Sacred Sex Coach, Shamanic Intimacy & Bodywork Practioner, Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Counselor, NVC Communication Trainer, Cross Cultural Minister www.LifeDanceCenter.com

Section Leader: The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists
Board Member: The Sunrise Center, Corte Madera, CA
PHONE COACHING Nationwide. IN PERSON SESSIONS: SF Bay Area.